
The blade shines in the candlelight, the reflection from its metallic edge forces you to shut your eyes or to allow it to cut deep into your soul. To those for whom the blade signifies the center of a personal ritual, its edge holds meanings and contradictions as fathomless as the deepest synapses of the human mind, meanings and contradictions any Penitente would recognize. Scourging and purging. Each time soul and blade wrestle, the uncertainty of the outcome heightens the moment, charging it with the high voltage of survival and threatening to color it with the distinctive carmine of flowing blood.
The first time I heard about �cutting,� I was facilitating a mental health leadership project for my state. A woman who served on the planning committee attended our sessions with both her forearms wrapped in Ace bandages. The others knew her story, but I did not. So one day she told me before I could ask, as if she knew sooner or later she would be asked. �I cut,� she said.
According to the University of Michigan, “adolescent self injury, frequently known as cutting, has become alarmingly common. Physicians estimate that almost 3 million people, most of them adolescents, exhibit this dangerous behavior.” Cutting is also more common among young women. The psychologists and psychiatrists I talked with agreed the causes for cutting were complex. “If we had figured it all out by now, people wouldn’t cut, would they”,one said.
Social pathologies can create as deadly a minefield as those in individuals. Even the simple act of moving from individual to group makes some policy analysts extremely uncomfortable. Psychologists and psychiatrists also find the idea of transferring an illness to a group not only wrong-headed but also dangerous because it may reinforce stereotypes.
Our planning group spent much time on stigmatizing, a memory which caused me to rewrite this post several times. Yet even as I did so, I thought of groups that also exhibit self-destructive behaviors that resemble cutting. Perhaps the best way to think of the parallel is metaphorically.
Certainly the Democratic Party and Blogdom currently exhibit all the signs of cutting. The Party’s presidential candidates all appear as if they were swathed in bandages. Meanwhile the blogs themselves spill their own blood, mirroring the Party.
Democrats and blogs cut because they are angry with Hillary Clinton’s views on Iraq. They cut because of frustration about an inability to pigeonhole Barack Obama. They cut because John Edwards issued a health care plan when they wanted a road map out of Iraq. They cut because they are depressed by other candidates clogging up the race.
Meanwhile blogdom is experiencing a bloodletting that directly links to the Democrats’ own wounded candidates. Bloggers are angry about the political views of other blogs, views they feel will lead to losing the best chance the party has had for the White House in years. Other blogs cut to express their frustration with the constant carping. Some posts openly admit being hurt and depressed.
A web site for parents of cutters explains cutting in language that could describe the current Blog Wars and the Democratic Party:
The urge to cut might be triggered by strong feelings the person can’t express - such as anger, hurt, shame, frustration, or depression. People who cut sometimes say they feel they don’t fit in or that no one understands them. A person might cut because of losing someone close or to escape a sense of emptiness. Cutting might seem like the only way to find relief, or the only way to express personal pain over relationships or rejection.
When you think about it, it seems as though Democrats and bloggers alike have been cutting for quite some time. John Kerry left so much blood on the floor in 2004 there was not much left of him. Howard Dean’s jugular was literally cut in Iowa. In 2000, Al Gore’s campaign seemed to veer from one cutting to another. And through it all, like teenagers at some gruesome spectacle, bloggers urged them on.
So how do you deal with cutting? The medical experts advise that first you have to acknowledge it. Then you need to get to the root of the problem. “Cutting is a way of reacting to emotional tension or pain. Try to figure out what feelings or situations are causing you to cut,” advises the parent’s web site.
The pain of the Democratic Party over the past decade has been so visible that sometimes it almost hurt to watch their candidates and representatives. The anger stirred up by the Era of Bad Feelings had a great deal to do with that as Democrats endured humiliation after humiliation inflicted by the likes of Newt Gingrich, Rush Limbaugh, Tom DeLay and Bill O’Reilly.
Many felt the Democrats wimped out, not fighting back against the bullying. Others argued that the only way to restore the Party’s credibility was to adopt the ideas of their tormentors. So Democrats voted for welfare “reform,” No Child Left Behind, tax cuts for the wealthy, and, of course, the biggest one of all, the Iraq War. You almost expected to see Democrats walk onto the floor of the House or Senate with Ace bandages on their arms.
The victories in November seemed to promise an end to the cutting, but as the early days of the presidential race and the wobbling paths taken by Congress so far testify, November failed to stop the blood flow. In fact the cutting in Blogdom hints at the anger and frustration still in the Party.
It seems to me that what has caused Democrats and blogs alike to cut is that they have lost their moral compass. Like someone caught in a psychological crisis they seem caught in an ideological crisis in which they no longer know who they are or what they stand for. That is one reason I decided to periodically post on past Democratic presidents and candidates, because only by understanding the past can we move confidently into the future.
Although that journey has just begun, several themes have emerged. First, single issue zealots threaten to tear apart the Party. Some groups will to do anything to push their agenda. No other cause matters�because other causes directly compete for funds and candidate loyalty. Meanwhile, in the now familiar endorsement rituals, candidates show off their scars to symbolize their dedication. Scourging and purging characterize the process.
At the other extreme stand triangulators who calculate positions as sharp as a knife�s edge using pollsters and their focus groups. Had Franklin Roosevelt used focus groups to solve the Depression he might have taken a fatal approach. Harry Truman would never have been known as “Give-em Hell, Harry” and the famous newspaper photograph would have been right.
Triangulators agree with the mainstream media that the country has drifted to the right even though polls show strong support for a woman’s right to choose, more spending for education, breaking up the big media, a reassertion of voting rights and tax equity. For triangulators cutting is central to the political process because candidates must visibly shed blood to show they truly believe the positions outlined for them by the consultants. Few emerge without deep wounds.
Blogdom reflects this same split which is why the “Blog Wars” have become so intense. Site “enforcers” insure that a certain party line is followed by all posters while other sites are being pressured into adopting a similar policy. Posters must show their scars just like the candidates so they too can pass muster with the ideologues. “Snarky” language and four letter words sometimes take on the symbolism of spilled blood.
As the cutting web site noted, cutting is a coping mechanism for a highly charged situation that demands some kind of relief. The woman I talked with those many years ago likened the feeling before she started cutting to a pressure cooker building up to the point where she had to do something. It feels like that right now.
Already there is talk none of the candidates are satisfactory. Meanwhile the blogs covering them engage in purging one another. Instead of cutting, we should be asking what vision do the candidates and the blogs have for the American people? This election should not be about programs, because inevitably they will be modified in the crucible of government, but about the raw ingredients for those programs�the principles that drive them. We no longer need 150 plus page lists of programs as John Kerry gave us in the last campaign. Nobody wants to read a book to know how to cast their ballot.
What they do want to know is what values do the candidates see guiding their decisions both at home and abroad? What does the American dream mean to them? Most of all do they believe that government must keep the playing field level so all Americans have a chance to achieve that dream?
Tell us that you will recover the Party’s lost moral compass. Tell us that you will take back the banner that the enemy so rudely captured, the battle flag on which hang ribbons signifying the Fourteen Points and the Four Freedoms, The New Deal and the Marshall Plan.
Values also lie behind the Blog Wars. Blogs that enforce various posting rules, stifle one of the most our most precious rights: free speech. As some of you readers know my family earned a death sentence under the Nazis for daring to speak out and my uncle�s family died at Dachau just for having a different faith. Yet those in my family who lived through the Weimar Republic and experienced Nazi hate first hand, NEVER spoke out against restrictions on speech. My father even gave money to the ACLU after they defended the American Nazi Party.
Why, because for them the issue had nothing to do with what was being said but with the defending the rule of law. The brownshirts enforced their anti-Semitism with violence. That is why they were dangerous. The Wiemer Republic refused to put a stop to it; that’s why it fell. Now is not the time for rigid proscriptions but for thoughtful new ideas and emotional testimony about what truly matters.
So the time has come to stop the cutting. We must seek a compelling vision that reasserts our principles in a manner that gives everyone a voice no matter how much they might offend.
Crossposts: My Left Wing, All Things Democrat
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